Your stories are part of who you’re becoming they help shape your identity, but they don’t have to define your future. When you understand them, honor them, and reshape them with intention, transformation becomes inevitable. I help people reconnect to who they are beneath the noise so they can live, lead, and love with greater alignment.

My name is Jarfa A. Wabs, MA, and my work lives at the intersection of identity, leadership, and human connection. I help people, leaders, couples, and families find clarity, alignment, and the courage to rewrite the stories that shape their lives.

I earned my Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy with highest honors from Pepperdine University, following a Bachelor’s in Psychology. At the Pepperdine Community Counseling Center, I spent years walking beside individuals and families in their hardest seasons helping them name their pain, reclaim their voice, and step into a truer version of themselves. Clients often describe me as deeply genuine, incredibly empathic, and relentlessly committed to uncovering the heart of what matters most to them qualities that continue to shape how I show up in every room I enter.

For more than two decades, I’ve moved between boardrooms and therapy rooms  where million-dollar decisions and personal breakthroughs both begin with the same thing: a story waiting to be rewritten. I’m a rare mix of strategist, storyteller, and therapist  fluent in both emotional depth and business logic.

Today, as an Executive Coach, therapist, and narrative strategist, I help leaders and changemakers examine the stories they live by and intentionally rewrite them. I help leaders and changemakers bridge those worlds so they can lead from alignment, not exhaustion; from meaning, not momentum. I’ve partnered with global leaders to navigate change, strengthen resilience, and build cultures grounded in authenticity. All of my frameworks including the Anchored Me Method and the Anchored Leadership Method align the inner work of identity with the outer work of influence, turning values into a daily leadership practice.

If you’re navigating a transition, leading through complexity, or ready to step into the most anchored version of yourself I’d be honored to walk with you.